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Can you change a person who doesn't see an issues in their actions! May be No! Changing another person’s behavior is really hard. It is definitely not an impossible task, but there are only certain behaviors you can try to change about other people. Ultimately, though, you can only make changes to yourself that will hopefully positively affect the people around you. To making changes in someone; you can * Discuss the problem with the person * Accepting a Potential Lack of change * Help to alter the behavior Discussing the problem with the person entails; - Identify the behaviour  You should try your best to identify the behavior you want to change in that particular person. - Then, you have to determine if the person is open to changing that behaviour. Hmmm,I feel this is where the challenge lies.  You sure don't have to ask directly from the person, you just have to figure out that yourself, if he's ready to change. - Then tell the person that the behavior bothers you. Whi...

Why is this plan not coming out well as I've planned it? Why is this happening at this particular time to the one I love? Why is this happening to me? Why is it looking as though I don't know how to pray? Why is my family in this kind of situation? This sickness is taking too long? I . I .. I hope I won't give up so soon,🥺 . I think I'm losing interest in everything again! . No! you won't give up! His strength is made available in your weakness! . He will be there for you, Just as He has promised... Even if you seem faraway to Him... He will remain faithful to His word. . He is right there 🌹and always on Time. © GracedPen'22

  Happiness  is a sure form of courage though you might not be so happy with what is going on around you at the moment, Ask this question frequently; why is this happening for me and not why is this happening to me? With this knowledge spiced up with Happiness, Courage will surely surface. Happiness is a form of courage; no doubt! © GracedPen'22

  Mirror 🔎 The soothness of my precious light hairy skin I can't regain, Its piercing effect can't be overlooked, My impatience shattered it all, Forever broken at the sight of my ever dancing eye, Your perfect weird look; I couldn't withstand. Bringing out possibilities of meeting my real self, Revealing all the excesses for normalcy, Leveling up my insufficiencies, How on earth, will I let you move an inch? Never will you be a write-off. Never in the world to come,  Will I ever hurt you, You gave me the clearest image of my puzzled self. My Mirror. #MeditateWellOnTheCharacteristicsOf aMirror #ThisWrittenAboveIsJustAFew #Anything/'oneYouCanPutInPlaceOfAMirror? #Mirror #Countdown #Day07 © GracedPen 2020

  Have your way!!! I gave Him the Slot, take it! Have it! He was just there, staring at me because it seems so late in His own discretion. But why? Then it came to me that's It's a thing to give and different thing to take. Have your way! In a situation whereby an individual requested for a thing and it was given, even though there might be some delay before it's been given but immediately you are given, accept it without delay or complaints. Have your way! Okay, this is it: You've been longing to see a very great personality in your field of study,  the industry you've so much anticipated to be someday or someone you're looking up to, just like a distant mentor. Then waoh! The person showed up in a jiffy and replied the text you dropped a long time ago. Make use of that opportunity. Have your way! She has been longing to hear the word; Ride on! You have the floor ma'am. Then the day came around. This same statement was made. She was still looking lost; with...

  Shoulder . Son: Mum is it because it holds up my head? Mum: No Son: Then why? Mum: It's because it can hold the head of a friend or loved ones when they cry. That's an excerpt of a dialogue I came across in a book. His mum asked if he knows the most important part of the body, he made a lot of guesses but they were amiss. The reason is written above. Check that again. The place of a Shoulder is being underrated, I know you've got your source of strength but its place must not be underrated.  Whom the Shoulder is; signifies different kind of ships you are in such as Friendship, Marital relationship, Partnership etc Fine, you claim to be the so called Strong headed guy or lady, but Oops! You need a Shoulder. I know you don't want to be a liability to others but still You need a Shoulder. We have two cases, the first- A Shoulder is available but they aren't willing to surrender again because of some form of betrayal they've experienced in some relationship in tim...

  redluohs # (Spell this from right to the left) Part 1 Throngs beaten across the town, Glaring sad looking faces, Squashing legs against angry floor, Empty Happiness waving from the atmosphere. Burdened Heart giving a deep shallow smile, Fear of Passing out written at the gigantic forehead, Deep murmuring to myself, To whom will I confide in? Shoulder (1) #ThisCanBeTheExpressionOfOneWhoHasNoOnetoConfideInAsaShoulder #ItsEitherYoumakeSomeonefeelthiswayoryouarefeelingthisWay #ShareWithMeYourExperience #Countdown #Day 03  © GracedPen 2020