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  BLEND (er) Blender is one of the kitchen utensils which is used to mix things of the same or different textures with no coarseness as the end product. With all certainty, life presents a lot of things to you. I know very well before now there were hurdles you'd crossed and some that you will still cross. That's pretty cool! I celebrate you for the victory ahead.   What can stand as blender are: people, dd situations, unhappiness, failure, environment, pressure, family, etc. Do not allow all this mentioned to blend you into whom you aren't meant to be. Blend is in two ways, you can blend positively to things or blend negatively. You can find yourself amidst people with very good character. Anywhere they find themselves, people who scold and chastise you whenever you go wrong , people with positive mindset towards your plans; yes! This kind of people, you can mingle with them. You can blend with them. Vice versa; you can always find yourself around firefighters, around tho

  YOU CAME ALL OF A SUDDEN You came all of a sudden, So glaring to me like a burden, Though I've trod a lot of path, With my heart being torn apart, You picked me up. Numerous space you created, Despite how I've been treated, Divinely made to your taste, Never will I make it a waste. You showed up. Thinking it was the end, Failed Relationships with the hope to mend, All looking so much dope, Your arrival brought me hope. #mentionnames of those you wished had showedup in your life earlier before now #FriendFamilyFianceFianceeBuddy #Day01 #OneManChallenge #Countdown © GracedPen 2022

  Haven't you heard? It's caused by comparison; Comparison is unwise; It takes away joy, It deprives you of happiness That it kills. Haven't you heard? It's caused by not knowing what you are meant to do in life. It lowers your esteem, It causes irresistible hidden tears, It makes fear fill your heart, It takes your courage away. Haven't you heard? It's caused by insecurity, It takes away confidence, It makes your beautiful heart depressed, It murders your esteem daily, It brings shame. Haven't you heard? It takes away your productivity, You lose your drive, It causes stagnancy, It leads to failure, It leads to unfulfillment. I present to you, one of the LIFE *Gradual Terminating Machine (GTM):* INTIMIDATION! Intimidation is being fearful or timid because of something or a particular success you have been longing to achieve. #YouWantIt! #GoForIt! #SkyIsYourStartingPoint #DoNotIntimidateYourselfWhenNoOneIsDoingSo.   © GracedPen 2020

How are you doing?  🥰. How is your day going?   It's attractive when someone remembers small details about you.   Anyways, on a lighter mode, this moment  😊🌹; Talking about relationships in my yesterday's write up. It's of great value to relate with people of great and like minds.   Like charge repels, unlike charge attracts , yaasss! So, if you are really meant to be in that clique or circle of friends, you will surely fit in. Remembering small details about me🤭 can make me shed tears of joy whilst blushing🤗😊. When you remember these little details that seems insignificant to the person in question, it does have a positive psychological effect  making the person feel on top of the world seemingly so important🌍. Though walking or relating with lot of people might be so irrelevant sometimes at a stage  because everything might seem bored due to the reduction in the Value being emitted  to each other but these little details are always known by your close circles of fr

Good day🌏🥰, how is it going over there? hope it's a stress-free day for you😊?   You are not selfish for distancing yourself from people who drain you; okay? To drain  : means to exhaust physically or emotionally.    Relationship is an important factor  in making impact in life i.e from where you are to a global level.🌏 There is a saying " you can never grow or rise in isolation, this is very true and proven to be realistic. Apart from being bored in some certain stages of life, the more reason you should engage in invaluable relationships is so as to leverage on other people's level of sacrifices serving as catalyst in catapulting you to that seen-stage where the world wide knows you. But what's the place of Toxic relationship  ? Excuse me🤷  I n a Toxic relationship; you'll feel these way: Being Around Them is Hard Work. You are Constantly in a Negative Mood. Everything is About Them. You Walk Around on Eggshells. You Feel Controlled. Your Self Esteem Is Not V

"I can't take that shit guy!!!🤷‍♀️ Never would I ever succumb to that unless you plead". _______________________ Before I continue, good day from this side of the world🌍😊, with great joy I release knowledge in writings.  Now let's dive together in this pool🏊‍♂️.   It's attractive when someone can admit they are wrong📝. We both stood on our toes that we won't make a plea; personal agreement without telling each other in words but in action. A particular offence was there leaping, argument to and fro from both ends, we were there giving excuses for good 20mins on call, dragging a particular matter which is the bone of contention at the moment. No one was ready to say the three word war. You did this, I did that, blah blah blahಠಗಠಠ_ಠ. Okay; it's fine then, he said. I Sha know say, na me right for this matter. Hunhunhun, she hummed at him; cased closed jawe. We move✈️. The issue is that we were both at fault, we ought to apologize, but No! argument takes